Why Micro Weddings Are Back in Style – And Why They're Perfect for Your Big Day
- hiddengemofgruene
- 2 days ago
- 7 min read
The wedding world is having a moment—and it’s smaller, more intentional, and more romantic than ever before. Welcome to the era of micro weddings! Over the last few years, couples everywhere have started rethinking what they truly want from their wedding day. And what they’re choosing might surprise you: intimacy, quality time, and unforgettable experiences with their closest loved ones. The result? The rise of the micro wedding—beautiful, meaningful celebrations with 10 to 100 guests that don’t skimp on style or sentiment.
At the Hidden Gem of Gruene, we’ve seen firsthand how magical micro weddings can be. They’re personal, flexible, and full of heart, and we’re thrilled they’re back in style. Whether you’re planning a garden ceremony, a candlelit dinner, or a cozy gathering inside, micro weddings are redefining what it means to say "I do." Here’s why more couples are choosing micro weddings—and why it might be the perfect choice for you.
What is a Micro Wedding?
Let’s start with the basics. A micro wedding is a small, intentional wedding typically involving between 10 and 100 guests. Unlike an elopement, these events still have a full wedding day timeline, with all the same requirements as a large wedding. They still include all of the traditional and personal elements! It’s everything you love about a wedding, just on a more intimate scale.
Mirco = More Meaningful Moments
When your guest list is small, your day becomes less about logistics and more about connection. With fewer people, you can spend genuine, quality time with each guest. There’s no need to rush from table to table or feel pulled in a hundred directions. Every hug, every conversation, and every toast becomes more intentional and heartfelt. At the Hidden Gem, we’ve watched couples tearfully exchange vows in front of 30 people who know them intimately, and then dance the night away with those same people, laughing, reminiscing, and soaking up every second. These are the weddings that stay with you.
Elevated Experiences
With a smaller headcount, your budget can go further—allowing you to upgrade every detail.
Think:
A gourmet, multi-course dinner instead of a buffet
Custom cocktails crafted to your tastes
Lavish floral installations that transform your ceremony space
Designer attire, heirloom jewelry, or personalized place settings
Couples are investing in experiences that matter to them—whether that means splurging on a live jazz trio, renting a vintage car, or creating a custom scent for their wedding day.
At the Hidden Gem Of Gruene, we’ve seen micro weddings with exquisite touches—think candlelit dinners on long farm tables, handmade guest favors, and curated wine pairings. When you're not stretching your budget over 150 people, you're free to focus on quality, not quantity.
More Venue Options (and Flexibility!)
Larger weddings often come with stricter venue requirements—minimum headcounts, larger spaces, and higher costs. Micro weddings open the door to a whole new world of possibilities.
The Perks:
Host your wedding in intimate spaces: gardens, courtyards, rooftops, art galleries
Choose unique timeframes like weekday evenings or brunch receptions
Split your day across multiple locations: a ceremony in the garden, followed by a private dinner inside
At our venue, we offer special micro wedding packages that take full advantage of our space, and utilize it in a way that might feel too cozy for 200 guests but is absolutely perfect for 30. You get the beauty and ambiance without the crowd.
Less Stress, More Joy
Let’s be honest, planning a big wedding can be overwhelming. Between managing RSVPs, family dynamics, seating charts, and vendor coordination, it’s easy to lose sight of what the day is really about: your love.
Micro weddings simplify everything:
Fewer guests = fewer logistics
Tighter timeline = less pressure
Smaller scale = easier to manage details
That doesn't mean your day is less special; it just means you can breathe more easily and be present for every moment. Couples often tell us how peaceful and relaxed they feel on their micro wedding day. There's no performance, no pressure, just joy.
A Focus on What Truly Matters
When you remove the expectations of a huge event, what’s left is the essence of your relationship: the love you share, the vows you exchange, and the people who mean the most to you.
Micro weddings allow you to:
Personalize your ceremony to reflect your story
Share private vows or letters before the ceremony
Create a guest list filled only with those who truly know and support your relationship
Spend intentional time with each other on your wedding day
At the Hidden Gem, we love seeing couples pause for quiet moments between events, sipping champagne in the garden, sneaking off for golden-hour photos, or just holding hands and taking it all in. Micro weddings make room for these moments in a way that large weddings often can’t.
Perfect for the Modern Couple
Today’s couples want more than tradition; they want authenticity. They want their wedding to feel like them, not a cookie-cutter experience. Micro weddings are tailor-made for this mindset.
You can:
Break the “rules” of weddings
Combine traditions or create new ones
Include pets, handwritten vows, or unique rituals
Host a weekend experience, like a welcome picnic or a farewell brunch
And the best part? With fewer guests and more flexibility, you can design a timeline that flows naturally; no need to follow a strict, hour-by-hour schedule. We’ll help you make it beautiful, smooth, and truly reflective of your love.
They’re Not Just a Trend—They’re Here to Stay
While micro weddings gained popularity during the pandemic, they’ve stuck around because they work. In fact, we’d argue they’re not a trend at all, they’re a shift in values.
Couples today want:
Deeper connection
Greater intentionality
Unique, curated experiences
Micro weddings deliver all of that and more.
At Hidden Gem, we believe that love doesn’t need to be loud to be powerful. In fact, some of the most moving weddings we’ve ever hosted have been the smallest.
They’re Often More Budget-Friendly
It’s no secret that weddings can be expensive. Micro weddings offer the opportunity to have a high-end, beautiful celebration without breaking the bank.
You’ll save on:
Fewer plates for catering
Less seating and rentals
Fewer invitations, favors, and centerpieces
That means you can either reduce your overall spend or reallocate your budget toward things that truly matter to you. Some couples use the savings to plan an unforgettable honeymoon, put a down payment on a house, or throw a casual celebration later with a larger group of friends. Whatever your priorities, micro weddings give you more options and fewer compromises.
How The Hidden Gem Of Gruene Makes Micro Weddings Magical
We believe every couple deserves a beautiful, meaningful celebration—no matter the guest count. That’s why we’ve designed customizable micro wedding packages that include:
Exclusive access to our most intimate ceremony and reception spaces
On-site coordination and planning support
Flexible timeline options (brunch, sunset, weekday)
Preferred vendor lists tailored to small weddings
Décor rentals, floral packages, and gourmet menu options
Whether you’re envisioning a garden ceremony followed by an al fresco dinner or a cozy indoor celebration with candlelight and music, we’re here to bring it to life. Our team loves working closely with couples to create something truly one-of-a-kind. Because micro doesn’t mean minimal—it means more of what matters most.
Small Wedding, Big Love
In the end, a wedding is about you two—your love story, your promises, and the beginning of a new chapter. Micro weddings honor that story with intimacy, intention, and style. So if you’re dreaming of a celebration that’s meaningful, beautiful, and filled with the people who know you best, a micro wedding might be exactly what you’ve been looking for. And if you’re searching for the perfect venue to make it happen, we’d love to welcome you to the Hidden Gem of Gruene. Let’s make your micro wedding unforgettable. Contact us to book a tour, view our micro wedding packages, or start planning your dream day today.
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